Remember, while your scales can indicate how much actual weight you're losing, they can't give you any information about your frame size, body fat or muscle mass. The fit of your clothes is generally a better indicator that you are losing weight.
Lose weight too quickly and your body will burn off muscle rather than fat; making it harder and harder to keep weight off and stay motivated.
Be realistic
First of all, you need to be realistic about the size and shape you'll be even after losing weight, based on the genes you've inherited. Also, don't forget that slight fluctuations in weight and shape from week to week are perfectly normal. Ask friends and family for support and encouragement if you're having a tough day. The occasional lapse happens to all of us. Just move on and make sure you keep going.
The little things
It's often making a number of small changes, rather than one big change, that can really be effective in improving your diet and lifestyle long-term. For instance, try to listen to your body ' eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full. If you tend to reach for a dessert or second helpings as soon as you've finished your first plate, you need to wait for five to ten minutes ' it takes the brain that long to register you're full.
Make it measurable
Set small goals towards the bigger overall goal and feel good about yourself with every step you achieve. And define those goals more clearly, too. Instead of saying a general "I want to eat more fruit", say "I'm going to eat an extra piece of fruit every day".
Review your goals
Work towards a realistic time-frame. Review your goals every two to three weeks. Sometimes, it's just the incentive you need to keep motivated ' it's easy to forget the changes you're making when they're happening gradually day-by-day. This is where 'before' photos can help ' you might be surprised to see how your shape is slowly changing.